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		<title>&#8220;Hold On To Your Kids&#8221;, Dr. Gordon Neufeld and Dr. Gabor Maté&#8217;s invitation is to reconnect to our intuition as parents.</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 24 Mar 2019 22:13:52 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>When I first met Dr. Gordon Neufeld in person in the fall of 2017, after I had the opportunity to interview him on video, and then get his autograph on my copy of the book “Hold On To Your Kids”, I said to him with gratitude “ Your insight into parenting has restored my confidence [&#8230;]</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://juliecusmariu.com/2019/03/psychology/hold-on-to-your-kids-dr-gordon-neufeld-and-dr-gabor-mates-invitation-is-to-reconnect-to-our-intuition-as-parents/">&#8220;Hold On To Your Kids&#8221;, Dr. Gordon Neufeld and Dr. Gabor Maté&#8217;s invitation is to reconnect to our intuition as parents.</a> appeared first on <a href="https://juliecusmariu.com">Julie Cusmariu</a>.</p>
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<p>When I first met <a href="http://www.theneufeldinstitute.org" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Dr. Gordon Neufeld</a> in person in the fall of 2017, after I had the opportunity to interview him on video, and then get his autograph on my copy of the book “Hold On To Your Kids”, I said to him with gratitude “ Your insight into parenting has restored my confidence as a mother .” He replied with a big, warm smile, “ then I&#8217;ve done my job&#8221;.</p>
<p><a href="https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2019/mar/23/focus-control-lost-battle-how-to-win-back-your-kids?fbclid=IwAR0rzcIXCoK_ErNzSlgl4ZFAdItsBBiLAF8_NUXRQ-7ZwVkj1_xuLYOKGNQ" target="_blank" rel="noopener">This article in The Guardian</a> sheds more light on his work  as does the conversation I had with Dr. Neufeld on my weekly podcast. <a href="https://juliecusmariu.com/2018/03/julie-in-conversation-motherhood/dr-gordon-neufeld/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Have a listen here.</a></p>
<p>If you want more of this deep insight and developmental approach to parenting, <a href="https://juliecusmariu.com/2017/12/julie-in-conversation-motherhood/drdeborahmcnamara/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">listen to my conversation</a> with <a href="http://www.macnamara.ca" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Dr. Deborah MacNamara</a>, author of Rest, Play Grow: Making Sense of Preschoolers (or anyone who acts like one) whose work is brilliant and helpful and is based on the Neufeld approach.</p>
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<p>*This picture is from my most recent meeting with Dr. Neufeld in March 2019.</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://juliecusmariu.com/2019/03/psychology/hold-on-to-your-kids-dr-gordon-neufeld-and-dr-gabor-mates-invitation-is-to-reconnect-to-our-intuition-as-parents/">&#8220;Hold On To Your Kids&#8221;, Dr. Gordon Neufeld and Dr. Gabor Maté&#8217;s invitation is to reconnect to our intuition as parents.</a> appeared first on <a href="https://juliecusmariu.com">Julie Cusmariu</a>.</p>
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		<title>Dr. Gordon Neufeld</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Mar 2018 20:01:12 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Dr. Gordon Neufeld is a Vancouver-based developmental psychologist with over 40 years of experience with children and youth and those responsible for them. A foremost authority on child development, Dr. Neufeld is an international speaker, a best-selling author (Hold On to Your Kids) and a leading interpreter of the developmental paradigm. Dr. Neufeld has a [&#8230;]</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://juliecusmariu.com/2018/03/julie-in-conversation-motherhood/dr-gordon-neufeld/">Dr. Gordon Neufeld</a> appeared first on <a href="https://juliecusmariu.com">Julie Cusmariu</a>.</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dr. Gordon Neufeld is a Vancouver-based developmental psychologist with over 40 years of experience with children and youth and those responsible for them. A foremost authority on child development, Dr. Neufeld is an international speaker, a best-selling author (Hold On to Your Kids) and a leading interpreter of the developmental paradigm. Dr. Neufeld has a widespread reputation for making sense of complex problems and for opening doors for change. While formerly involved in university teaching and private practice, he now devotes his time to teaching and training others, including educators and helping professionals. His <a href="http://www.neufeldinstitute.org">Neufeld Institute</a> is now a world-wide charitable organization devoted to applying developmental science to the task of raising children. Dr. Neufeld appears regularly on radio and television. He is a father of five and a grandfather to six.</p>
<p>Dr. Gordon Neufeld helps us make sense of our kids, empower our parenting and re-connect us to our natural intuition as parents, educators, guides, mentors, and human beings responsible for the children we care for and love.</p>
<p>Enjoy this delightful, insightful and deeply impactful conversation.</p>
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<p>In addition to the delightful and insightful podcast conversation I had with Dr. Gordon Neufeld you can watch the in- person conversation I had with him on the topic of play its importance, the nature of it and how it serves the healthy development of children.</p>
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