Conventional wisdom tells mothers to put their children first, no matter what. Well, maybe that worked in 1967, but that doesn’t work today (and it probably never did). Nic Strack is here to set mamas across the world free with her 15-word paradigm shift: The relationship you have with your self defines the relationship you have with your child. She knows it’s no longer enough to dismissively instruct mamas to “find balance” or “just focus on being present!” Because balance is relative and presence is only a partof the parenting picture. Knowing this, Nic has opted to help mamas cultivate a significant and self-aware relationship with themselves first. And, in so doing, they can have wholehearted and symbiotic relationships with their children.

Living with her husband, toddler, and parents, all while recently coming out as genderqueer has given Nic daily opportunities to embody the truth of her 15-word paradigm shift. And it has been aaaaaamazing for her.