“we could expand into our full selves as mothers that would then influence the next generation because not only are we mothers of daughters, but we’re mothers of sons and if we are a free balanced woman, we are more capable of raising balanced and free men and women.
“It took me until that moment to really, really ask myself, well, what do you think? Right? Instead of what does everybody else think about this? And it, it took me, I mean, I was however old I was 43 when I finally 44 that I finally began to ask myself those questions. Well, what do you think [inaudible] model? And then the other question that I was asking myself too was, you know, okay, you’re 43 or 44, w you know, what, what are those things that you really want to do? And, and, and now’s the time, like, when, when else are you going to do this work?